Covering your socket...
When a woman is married, her socket is covered by her husband and he is the shield that protects her in their covenant...when a woman is single (and by this single means NOT MARRIED), she is open and vulnerable and needs to ensure that she is covered by God and His shield of protection so that no other kind of "funny plug" or “non fitting plug” can try to come into her socket when it’s not supposed to be there...
***Kemo
Covering your socket...
The importance of guarding our hearts (Proverbs 4:23)...TD Jakes explains it well in His version of the NKJ Bible when he says that women are like open sockets and men are like plugs.
The importance of guarding our hearts (Proverbs 4:23)...TD Jakes explains it well in His version of the NKJ Bible when he says that women are like open sockets and men are like plugs.
When a woman is married, her socket is covered by her husband and he is the shield that protects her in their covenant...when a woman is single (and by this single means NOT MARRIED), she is open and vulnerable and needs to ensure that she is covered by God and His shield of protection so that no other kind of "funny plug" or “non fitting plug” can try to come into her socket when it’s not supposed to be there...
Now this is not only referring to sex
ladies...I'm talking about engaging in both emotional and physical relations
for the wrong reasons...yearning to be covered by m a n who is 'flawful'
instead of God who knows our hearts and has our health, safety and wellbeing @
heart.
In Lady
in waiting, Jackie Kendall and Debby Jones talk about how us women are so
focused on becoming ‘women’ by the worlds standards and definitions, that we
are under the impression that our lives only ‘begin’ once we become wives, mothers
or when we become noticed by men and are complimented by them – depending on
that reassurance to define who we are!
Wanting to be defined by man’s words (including
other women) can lead us to a place of self destruction...the journey one has
to go through to achieve that level of so called “beauty” and “worth” makes us
forget about our open sockets...allowing ourselves to be open to unwanted
chaos...and Sometimes ... it’s not even just about “beauty”...it’s about our
egos being stroked...We like to be adored...
When I look back @ my life, even though
I know that the hardships I went through and the mistakes that I made make me
the stronger and wiser woman I am today, I wish I could have known better...I
wish that I was more careful about what and who I let plug into my socket!!!!
What I have learnt is...man will always be man and he will always have flaws...it’s the
connection through God that defines
mans’ worth...
It’s so important to have sisters,
older and younger so that we can be poured into and also overflow and pour into
others...my little sisters...if there's anything I can leave you with from this
post is: make sure that you are diligent and allow God
to be your covering, your first love and especially your primary point of reference...my
sister sisters and older sisters...we have alllll been through DRAMA! We all have a story to share and
I'm sure that we are better people today because of those experiences...
This one was lead by the spirit ya’ll...a
Revelation...Deep times...
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